Angie Tempest - Delilah Crazy

I was lucky for awhile in that the infamous Angie (well, if you're a Shop-n-Smile worker) has been mostly working days, so has been absent from life. I am now unlucky in two other ways though: a) she is now the head of my department and frankly, is doing a crappy job of it; and b) I've seen more of her lately since a buttload of people have quit and she's been working some nights.

So many people have quit, that nearly every night I work (except for those glorious nights with Angie), I am the senior person there. Keep in mind I started this job in March, less than six months ago. Closing each night with a bunch-a-newbies is painful. They're slow, needy, and naturally, somewhat psycho. One girl, "Delilah," comes off as Severus Snape's younger, annoying sister, with oily tendrils of jet black hair hanging to her chin and a way of holding herself that makes you feel she is uncomfortable in her own skin. In all honesty, I thought she was a tranny, which fascinated me since Montana's not a trans-gender-friendly place. Now, I think not. Anyway, overall, she's a nice girl, but, of course, really peculiar. She introduced us to her fiance, a young man who instantly strikes you as an expert Magic and D&D player, and who has developed a tendency of orbiting her while she works. Never quite talking to her, but always...there.

The other night I was talking to some customers, explaining the futon deal to them (believe it or not, it's complicated), when she walked up, planted herself inches from me, and stood there for a few moments. Because I was right in the middle of my explanation, I kind of just acknowledged her with a smile and kept talking, until I was suddenly interrupted mid-sentence by her loudly chirping out, "Hi!"

I stopped mid-sentence and turned to her. I thought she must need something. "Hi," I said, "Did you have a question?"

"No," she said, "I just saw that you were here and well, I know that there's questions about furniture and stuff, and just in case you had a question..."

I paused again. I didn't even really get this. Basically I am the furniture person. "Um, no, I'm good, thanks," I said, and continued on with the customers. She kind of hovered there for another minute, and then finally strolled off.

And last night I was treated to Evil Angie's presence. Since Harry Potter 5 came out, it struck me that she is almost EXACTLY like the Dolores Umbridge character. Sickly sweet, high-pitched voice, but an underlying current of cruelty flowing. About 7pm, the manager was gathering me, Angie, and another (somewhat new) employee, Barry together. It seems there was a mess-up on the schedule and he was going to figure out who would do what. I was already somewhat annoyed since I'd been placed in Health & Beauty, an area I was unfamiliar with, but it wasn't the end of the world. As he was striding toward us, he got called to the cash registers on the loudspeaker. Walking away, he called out over his shoulder, "You guys figure it out and let me know!"

Angie immediately took charge. "Okay, let's see. where did you start and which way are you working?" she asked me.

"I'm not, really. I started in the middle and I'm jumping around." This was because I didn't want to start in school supplies (a disaster area right now due to back to school crap), nor the other end, grocery, which is a mess even on the best of days. I had decided to tackle the center first and jump around as I put back returns. This was to keep myself from being overwhelmed and stabbing myself in the neck due to both the mess and the utter boredom that my life would take on for the next four hours.

Angie did NOT like that answer. She let out a melodramatic sigh and said, "Well!" Then she turned to Barry and started talking to him. He tried to explain his "plan." It started getting ridiculous, since she was truly trying to map out a strategy, and we were somewhat resistant. Not out of any malice, but simply because, really, the "strategy" is: do your work, and if you finish, come help someone else. Shit, there's only THREE of us. It's not rocket science. We didn't need a game plan. She threw up her hands and shrieked, "Fine! Do whatever you want!" as I paused and waited for all glass in the store to shatter. Then, she stomped off in a huff that would make any silent movie actress proud.

As we watched her exit stage left, Barry shook his head and muttered, "God, I hate her. She makes me want to punch a baby."

If I had been drinking milk at that moment, it would have come out my nose. Not only was I shocked simply by the statement, violent as it was, but also that it came out of Barry's mouth. Barry's just one of the sweetest people I've ever met. About 20 years old, he's one of those people who are ALWAYS in a good mood with a big smile on their face, and it's all for real! "Hey J!" he always calls out to me as if we've been pals forever. He's good to customers and he works hard. He even stayed to close one night after finding out his grandmother was dying. "Go home! Forget fucking Shop-n-Smile!" I said. He wanted to be the good guy, I guess. I've never heard him say a bad word about anyone, ever. Even when he complains about customers he does it with a smile on his face.

Well, I guess that's just the effect our lovely Angie has on her co-workers. How to win friends and influence people!

Surreal Day

So, I'm sitting here at my desk, getting a massive vibrating massage. Seems they're doing heavy construction on the steam pipes here at the university, or some such, and I feel like I'm going to jiggle right off my chair onto the floor. At first it felt kinda neat *wink* but now it's a bit annoying...or literally, jarring. Every time it stops for a few seconds, I feel like shaking my head like a dog who's just come out of a pool.

Add to that, my lovely and powerful female boss is singing Patsy Cline's "Crazy," in a somewhat-operatic voice. AWESOME. She's not bad, and it helps to make the day deliciously surreal.

Men and Food - A Strange Relationship

I've said before that one satisfying thing about a man, if you're a woman, is that you can pretty much put anything in front of them, and they'll eat it. This makes cooking a bit less stressful. Yet, I am still repeatedly surprised to find Beau actually shoving things down his pie hole that he claims to despise. Despite the fact that I LOVE LOVE LOVE to eat, I'm actually kind of a picky eater, and can't imagine digesting something that didn't appetize me.

One annoying habit of mine, is that I will become fixated on a food and eat it continuously until I am so sick of it I can't eat it for a long time afterwards. No, we're not talking the "I only eat white food!" kind of thing, but if I get into, let's just say, Jelly Belly sour jellybeans, as I have for the past couple weeks, I will continue to eat them again and again. We just HAPPEN to have a Jelly Belly dispenser at Shop-n-Smile, and I have been getting small bags of the sour ones and snacking on them throughout the day (I don't want to even THINK about the calories). Beau, who is always sniffing out food like a bloodhound, immediately noticed the bag on the counter at home and began pawing it. "What's this? Jellybeans? Yuck, I hate jellybeans," he said, turning away. This is true, since after I made him an Easter basket, the only thing that didn't vaporize within 24 hours were the jellybeans, who sat lonely and untouched for quite some time in the Easter grass.

I was somewhat relieved, because if Beau finds a sweet he likes, it won't stick around for long. Many a time I have griped at him for knocking off pints of ice cream I had bought for myself (after already having bought him one as well). And just forget about having chocolate around him. Just last week he spastically wrestled a mangled mini-Mr. Goodbar from my grasp with a fervor that was frightening (he had been abstaining from chocolate for a week or two at the time).

I have had to devise very clever hiding places just so I can keep a candy bar in the house longer than 25 seconds. I once forgot that I had hidden a bag of Hershey's Kisses in the front pocket of my raincoat and found them months later. He still ate them.

Despite all this, yesterday we were hanging out in the living room and when I gave him a kiss, I was hit with the distinctive aroma of a Jellybelly. (Beau's not the only one who can act like a bloodhound). "Hey!" I said pulling away from his face, "I smell Jellybellies! I thought you hated jellybeans!"

"I do," he replied simply.

Doesn't seem much more to say.

Then this morning I woke up and saw the new box of Golden Grahams cereal was opened. This puzzled me since Beau had clearly stated that he was not a fan, AND also since we had two other boxes of cereal that he DID enjoy.

"Hey, didn't you tell me you hated Golden Grahams?"

"Yes"

"So, um, I noticed you had a bowl or two. Why?"

"I don't know."

Maybe another male can explain this to me, cause seriously, I'm stumped. It's not like we're stranded on a desert island and Beau's only hope for survival and sustenance are the many Jellybelly and Golden Graham trees surrounding him. What gives with consuming, needlessly in my opinion, food that doesn't interest you, or furthermore, food you claim to hate?

More Proof I Work With Crazy People - Part II

Sort of update: Sally is already back to work, because as she says, "I can't not work. I have to be working! It's important to me!" This sounded admirable to me, though I thought she did come back awfully fast (after not quite a week). But then as the conversation progressed, she informed me that she was working with her doctor to get disability due to her back problems, so she would only have to work 15 hours a week ever again. Well!

She is all excited and showing off photos of her new baby boy. Of course, she never said anything about adoption (whether or not that was really what was going on, that's her business), but what she DID tell me was this:

Sally: I had my tubes tied. This wasn't supposed to happen.
Me: Really!? Did you have them "tied" or were they burnt off? (I have heard of ones that were literally tied coming undone and women getting pregnant).
Sally: I don't know, all I told them was that there better not be a chance in hell I get pregnant again.
Me: Wow, so much for that.
Sally: Yeah, but they're giving me another free surgery. So, I'll make sure this time!

And now she's in her early 20's with THREE boys (yikes) and working at Shop-n-Smile. Life can't be easy.
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More Proof I Work With Crazy People

So, we've been shorthanded at Shop-n-Smile for days. This really pisses me off, since we tend to be understaffed (imho) most of the time anyway. The typical "night shift" consists of just THREE people on the entire "hardlines" floor (anything that doesn't involve clothes). So, if someone is on break, or someone has to do a "carry out" (wheeling and loading a piece of furniture out to someone's car, which happens OFTEN), then you can easily be the only person left standing. Add to that the cashiers constantly calling you up to help them out or a few annoying phone calls ("Can you tell me the prices and descriptions of ALL your coffee tables?"), and you can see how things can quickly get hectic. All this, and your MAIN job is to clean up/straighten the entire store at the same time, because the first shift people piss, bitch, moan and cry if they don't enter the store every morning to a gleaming, sparkling paradise.

Two nights ago we had four people missing (including the apparel area), which was crazy. We had two people missing last night as well, and walking with the boss, I said, "Who's missing tonight?" My boss told me it was Sally, a young woman about 22 years old who works at the Customer Service counter. She's about 5 feet to 5 feet 2 inches tall and shaped almost exactly like the apple guy from the Fruit of the Looms commercials. She works pretty hard, though she's one of those people who will just start chatting and chatting with you until the point where you can't take it anymore and you find yourself trying to slowly inch away from them and escape. Once I got ensnared by her when she launched into a story about how she was suing Wal-Mart (true). Though I thought this was another crazy co-worker story, it seemed she actually had somewhat of a case. That was months ago. Well, if she ends up with a multi-million dollar judgment, I'm sure I'll hear about it. Or maybe not, as the case turns out..

I was surprised Sally was missing, since she didn't seem the type to skip out. She works full-time as far as I know, and she's got two little kids to support. When the boss was lamenting her second night of double-duty, she began this conversation:

Boss: Yeah, it's Sally who isn't here again.
J: Oh.
Boss: She wasn't here last night. She called and said she had a bladder infection.
J: Oh, ick.
Boss: Then her mother called today. Her mother told me that Sally won't be in for a week now.
J: A week? Wow, what's wrong?
Boss: It seems that last night she had a baby.
J: *long pause while brain explodes inside skull* Wait, whu?
Boss: Yes, she really did have a baby.
J: Sally. Sally had a baby. Sally.
Boss: Yes.
J: A real baby. Did she know she was pregnant? (note: I actually knew someone once who didn't know she was pregnant until her SIXTH month. True. She said it was due to her chronic colitis condition which often swelled up her stomach anyway, as well as her frequently missed periods. Go figure).
Boss: Yes, and she didn't tell anyone. Not any of the bosses here knew.
J: Um, she's full-time. Isn't there maternity leave and stuff?
Boss: Yes. *shrug* Who knows what she is thinking.
J: Wait...still...she had a BABY?

I just went on spluttering and pausing after that. It was a monkeys-fly-out-of-my-butt moment. Sure, she was round, but there are different kinds of round! Not for a minute did I ever think she was nine months pregnant (and she must have worked right up until the day she went into labor).

Further craziness ensued when talking to apathetic teenager Katie, who is a close friend of Sally's.

Katie: Yeah, and Sally just had a baby.
J: Um yeah, what's up with that? Did you know?
Katie: No, I had no idea! I mean, I hang out with her! She never said anything! Everyone keeps saying, "I just thought she was fat."
J: This is so weird.
Katie: I mean, now that we all think about it, it makes total sense. She used to be this huge drinker, and at some point she just randomly stopped drinking.
J: Ahh.
Katie: And she used to be the sweetest person ever, and then she just turned into this total bitch. So, it all makes sense now.
J: Uh huh.

One alarming point is just last week I was sitting in my car during a break, chatting with Beau, and I THOUGHT I had a funny moment. As we were talking, I would occasionally glance at Katie across the parking lot. She was gathering shopping carts, of which there were a lot. At one point, I looked up and saw her hiding behind a bunch of cars where she began, hands down, the fastest smoking of a cigarette I have ever seen. She was taking rapid fire, fierce drags that sucked her cheeks in sharply. It was comical to watch, since she mirrored a dying man sucking on an oxygen mask for dear life. When I mentioned it to her later, she said, "Oh, Sally was in the parking lot in her car and I asked her if I could have a few drags off her cigarette." Knowing what I know now, yikes!

So, anyway, I don't know if this certifies Sally as crazy, but once again, I have a co-worker with inexplicable, bizarre behavior. The only thing I could think of was that perhaps Sally was planning on giving the baby up for adoption all along, since she's very young and supporting two children on a Shop-n-Smile salary. If so, I don't know why she would tell Shop-n-Smile WHY she would have to be out for a week (I'm sure she could make up a similar 'bladder infection' story). Otherwise, I have no clue as to why there would be a big secret.

Weirdos, I tell you, weirdos!

Prevent the Madness!

So, there's been huge forest fires around here, which started in Idaho and now are actually surrounding the Missoula area. People are a bit freaked out by it all, because there is a literal haze over everything, and a deep wood-burning smell pervades all things. You can't even make out the surrounding mountains in the distance. You just see a speckled mass of white, like Paul Bunyan had a great big sneeze of white pepper. Besides being scared of the fire (I-90 had been briefly closed and a some people living outside Missoula had to evacuate their homes), people seem truly alarmed by the smoke itself. One dean told me how he wakes up with his eyes all caked up and runny (ew), and how he can hardly breathe. There was even a warning in the daily newspaper that the young and elderly should stay indoors at all times.

Well, not me! This girl's made of tougher stuff! After three years in Bangkok, a city that THRIVES on a constant state of thick, scratchy smog, this is kid stuff. After consistently watching the churning water in my washing machine turn from clear to the color of rich chocolate milk, I fear not a little dirt. After being so dirty and sweaty you have to shower twice a day, three times in the "hot season," I laugh at a little forest fire smoke. Ha! Ha ha!

Of course, now Mother Nature will fuck me up and give me some allergy or something, just for my arrogance.

As usual in Missoula though, I feel removed from it all. Forest fires are not a phenomenon I've ever really experienced, besides the occasional shoving of Smokey the Bear in my face, with the ominous, "Only YOU can prevent forest fires!" Only me? Seriously? I mean, aren't a lot of these forest fires a simple and natural part of nature? Aren't they good for the ecosystem? I don't have a lot of education on this, but I thought they were a healthy part of the forest's cycle of rebirth, adding nutrients to the soil and allowing for new, healthy growth. Yeah, yeah, I know Smokey is referring to people who are careless with campfires, shut up.

I'm used to monsoon drown-you-in-five-minutes rain, tornadoes, blizzards, and even the cute little dust storm or flash flood now and again, but the threat of forest fires is new. So, just as when you're in a foreign country walking around a bad neighborhood, I am unaware and basically aloof from it all. I'm sure if I saw flames careening down the mountain toward my apartment building, it'd be one helluva wake-up call, but that seems so far-fetched to be almost a fairy tale (good thing we were forced to get renter's insurance before we moved in).

Driving to Shop-n-Smile each night, I often see the Smokejumpers helicopters flying by. If you don't know what these are, they consist of crazy men and women who jump out of helicopters to land amidst some distant forest region which is heartily ablaze. Here's part of the literal definition: "[their] primary job is to suppress wildfires in remote mountainous terrain." Let me repeat that, REMOTE mountainous terrain! REMOTE terrain that is ON FIRE! They parachute down, with their supplies tumbling quickly after them, and are expected to stay down there in the "roadless" areas until its deemed they can come back home. There's even a school for these crazy mo fo's here in Missoula! Oh, and they have "also been used as tree climbers in New York and Chicago for an ongoing insect eradication program." ?? Wtf?

I've never really understood the romance of the firefighter myself, beyond the basic 'heroism' part of it, which I get. I've always thought of the reality -- a lot of really heavy equipment, running into burning buildings, being fucking hot ALL the time, etc. And you know, I'm a sweat-er, a really icky one, so that intense heat thing would not be good for me. There's only so much baby powder you can utilize. I'd chafe.

I don't know exactly why...

...but every time I see this dancing alien in one of those sidebar advertisements on Yahoo or whatever, it really gives me the heebee jeebees! *SHIVER*

And there's a top bar one that has THREE dancing aliens. Eeyah!